Sunday, April 27, 2014

Friends, Family and Easter Bunnies

It has been four weeks since the start of the new immunotherapy drugs, and this week I had the third infusion. We still have to wait another four weeks for the CT scan, and meanwhile we are of course looking for any sign that hints as to whether these experimental drugs are effective. The short answer is that it is still too early to invest in Bristol Meyer Squibb shares, because we are getting some mixed messages. The bone cancer had spread to the right hip even before the new drugs and is now starting to give some serious discomfort. I asked the Oncologist to refer me to the radiologist to nuke my butt. Radiation looks like an easy fix because it took all the pain and discomfort away when the cancer affected the left hip. Unfortunately, the test protocol, to which I must adhere, does not allow radiation and the pain is now managed with opiates. I don’t want to be too graphic about the side effects of drugs containing opium, and let’s just say that it appears to shut down all internal traffic.  Bonnie went to Costco to buy the remedies in bulk and the check-out person must have wondered about her well-being since there were few food items included in the purchases. As usual another Costco employee inspected Bonnie’s shopping basket at the exit, all the while making sure not to be downwind from her.

I lost another 5 pounds in the past two weeks, and that was before Bonnie came home with the recommended remedies in bulk.  We hope the weight loss is a side effect of the immunotherapy because it is generally not a good thing. On the positive side, I have not had any chest pain, feel good and enjoy life. The results of the CT scans are always anxiously awaited but this next one will have a particularly big effect on how we will manage our future.

What made our lives particularly enjoyable was a visit from our very good friend Alison, whose bubbly personality livened up the house for the past 12 days. We know Alison from our time in Belgium and we have countless memories of great parties and outings. Now, 25 years later, the parties sizzle out a little earlier in the evening and the intake of food and alcoholic beverages are perhaps a little more modest, but it was just as enjoyable. Nevertheless, I noted with some satisfaction that the glass recycling bin was full, and the reduced content of the wine cellar will allow us to organize some wine tasting expeditions again.  The advantage of having visitors is that we get to experience some items on our nice-to-do list, and the Portland City Grill, Pok Pok and the Crystal Springs Rhododendron Gardens are now officially crossed off that list (not that they cannot be revisited with future visitors). We dined the Portland City Grill, which is on the 30th floor of the US Bank Building, on a gorgeous day and were able to see three volcano's from our window seats. The food was fabulous and the restaurant is definitely recommended, especially on clear days. Afterwards we went to see “Menopause, the Musical” on (Portland’s) Broadway. It was hilarious and my fear that I would be the only man among 300 women proved unfounded. I counted 3 other men in the audience. I had chosen seats on the last row of the theater, because I was not looking forward to the audience participation in this kind of environment. One of the other 3 men in the audience splurged on front row seats and he must have regretted that because he definitely looked uncomfortable after his unwilling participation.

We had lunch at Pok Pok, a restaurant that serves surprisingly tasty Thai inspired dishes in a piece of real estate where a reasonable person wouldn't even park his bicycle. It consistently shows up on lists of best value or things to do in Portland, and Dutch readers would be interested to know that you can get a full meal for the price of an appetizer at Portland City Grill.

The Easter Bunnies
Sara, Josh and the grand-kids visited us on Easter Sunday. The weather was cooperating and the Easter Bunnies hid lots of eggs in our front garden. Kellan now understands the concept of Easter Egg hunts and filled his Easter basket in record time, not realizing there was actually chocolate inside the plastic eggs. We all sat down for a late Easter Lunch, with a nice leg of lamb from the barbie and all the trimmings and wine to go with that. We are grateful that we get to celebrate the holidays with friends and family. It makes it so much more meaningful.


A hug after a successful egg hunt


After Alison left I decided to make myself useful and start cleaning the concrete slab in front of the garage with the pressure washer we borrowed from our nice neighbor Tom. Unfortunately, and I hate it when that happens when you use someone else’s equipment, the machine had a defect and no longer pressurizes the water. Tom and I bought some parts and tried to fix it, but to no avail. He called the manufacturer and they seemed to think we have a malfunctioning unloader valve. Hello! That sounds a little too familiar. Maybe Miralax will help here as well.